i finally got it to work. I got a program called Network Magic, and found the IP address of the Wii, then went into Norton firewall and force allowed all traffic. I hope this helps anyone else who was having this problem.
allright, that must be my problem, i just checked my nero settings and it was ISO9660+joliet, although i am not entirely sure what that means, i havent looked into that yet. I will try burning solely as ISO9660 and see how it works.
I have tried both, just in case, but I’ve been going to the Data DVD option under the Videos tab, not the DVD icon. Ive googled it and checked the forum and I cant seem to find an answer to my problem.